Using a surrogate involves a multifaceted process where one person carries and gives birth to a baby for another person or couple, known as the intended parents. The journey begins with choosing the right type of surrogacy: traditional or gestational. In traditional surrogacy, the surrogate’s egg is used, making her the biological mother, whereas in gestational surrogacy, the embryo is created using an egg and sperm from the intended parents or donors, meaning the surrogate has no genetic ties to the baby.
Once the type of surrogacy is decided, the next step is to find a suitable surrogate.
This can be done through agencies that specialize in matching surrogates with intended parents, or through independent arrangements. The chosen surrogate undergoes extensive psychological and medical screenings to ensure her suitability for pregnancy and her understanding of the emotional implications of surrogacy.
Legal agreements are crucial and are drawn up with the assistance of attorneys specializing in reproductive law. These contracts outline each party’s rights, roles, and responsibilities, including financial arrangements, parental rights, and agreements on prenatal care.
After the legalities are settled, the medical process begins, typically involving in vitro fertilization (IVF) to implant an embryo in the surrogate’s uterus. Throughout the pregnancy, the surrogate attends regular medical appointments, and the intended parents often participate in these milestones.
Once the baby is born, the intended parents assume custody, and depending on the state’s laws, parental rights are transferred from the surrogate to the intended parents, completing the surrogacy journey. This process, while complex, can bring immense joy and fulfillment to all involved.
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